Self Love First


We so often hear “love yourself.” Many often wonder what this means. How do I love myself?” One confirmation of self-love is when you put yourself first. There is a difference between selfishness, selflessness, and self-love. Valentine’s Day is a holiday celebrated across the world on February 14th. But what is it? Every year, people show their love for one another by sending Valentine’s cards and giving gifts such as chocolates and flowers.

Selfishness: lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.

Selflessness: concern more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own.

Self-love: a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological, and spiritual growth. Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others.

Slowly speak these affirmations and know you are to be celebrated.

I am a magnet attracting abundance in my life.
I am successful in any area of my life.
I am the only one who can stop me.
Everything is good right here, right now.
I am loyal. I am at peace with myself.
I respect myself and everything I do is meant to fulfill me.
All my relationships have a purpose, and they fulfill me.
I can do amazing things.
I am worthy.
I am balanced.
Everything that I need comes to me at the right moment.
I am powerful and present in my own life.
I am more than enough.
I am full hearted.
I am special.
I am focus on the good in any given situation.
I am aware of my mistakes, and I learn from them.
I make good decisions.